Sometimes all that we need when we are heartbroken are kind words of inspiration, to help us see tiny rays of sunshine that
are trying to reach us in the darkest corner of our room of despair to help you get past your break up.
Some think that holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it’s letting go.
Have you ever hold onto something so tight that your whole body became tense and you did not notice anything else
around you, you spend all of your energy just to hold onto this thing and all your focus on it. And when you finally let go, you relaxed and could take a breathe again and
look around and see there is so much more there.
When one door closes, another opens, but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.
Alexander Graham Bell
I notice that I often did not see another open door because I just did not believe that they exist or because I did not believe that something even better (for me) will come into my life.
But it always did. And it still does.
Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart.
Letting go has never been easy, but holding on can be as difficult. Yet strength is measured not by holding on, but by letting go.
The more I let go pain and sorrow and sadness and let it flow away from me, the more my inner strength could grow and fill all the empty spaces inside me, replace all pain and sadness.
One of the best times for figuring out who you are and what you really want out of life? Right after a break-up.
The problem is that I was seeing that as the best time only after I was again in the relationship. But for me, it was the best time, when nothing and no one was distracting me
from focusing on me and figuring out who the hell am I and what I want (not what others want)
When someone leaves, it’s because someone else is about to arrive.
Yet the time of the waiting is the hardest part. My experience was, that waiting period between them is the myth that we all believe.
When I drop the illusion of the necessary waiting, the waiting period almost vanished. And instead of being rejected from something good, we are re-directed to something better.
Sometimes you’re going to have to let one person go a thousand different times, a thousand different ways, and there’s nothing pathetic or abnormal about that.
You are human.
It is true that break up happens in the second, but for the relationship to end, you need a thousand little tiny steps to step out of it.
When your heart is broken you plant seeds in the cracks and wait for rain.
Breakup? – this is the part where you find out who you are
Your heart is finally wide open and the seeds are planted. A time that you start to grow and shine in your beauty like a rose.
How long it takes for rosebud to turn into the beautiful rose? Only you could decide.
But we are all waiting for you, hoping that you will decide soon.
And then the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to Blossom.
What happens when people open their hearts? They get better.
You don’t always need a plan. Sometimes you just need to breathe, trust, let go and see what happens.</strong
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