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Childhood pain – Childhood trauma

childhood trauma-heal-child-withinWhat if every time that you experience deep pain in relationship with other (start with mother, father and continue with others)  when somebody windrow love from you,you created strong protection to survive.
And this protection is like frozen part of you that is inside your space, frozen in time, still the same age as you were when this happens.
And until you release that, something will always block you in your effort to find love and relationship.

How we create identities to protect us from pain

When something painful happens to you as a little child, you create believe-identity, that will protect you from experience this pain again. And that identity-the same age as you were, when this happens, stay inside you, stuck and frozen and is here in your energy field even today. And every time something similar happens, this identity react and try to protect you. Even though that reason for protection does not exist anymore, this little child doesn’t know that. Because it is stuck and frozen in some dimension inside of you. And that is not your past. It is here and now.
Child trauma protection story – believe It is not safe to be seen.
Are you one of those people who doesn’t like to be on the spot, on the stage, speak in front of others, be exposed?
Then maybe you also created identity It is not safe to be seen.

Ana and her protection – It is not safe to be seen

When Ana was a kid, it was never safe to be with her sister. Every time when other kids were around, when Ana said something, or have any opinion or suggestion for play her sister ridiculed her and convinces others that Ana needs to leave. She still remembers the sadness and being left out and not good enough for others and not loved and very lonely and very much hated by her own sister.

What Ana started to believe about her?

She started to believe that she needs to hide in the crowd. Never step out. Be invisible if she doesn’t want to be excluded and being alone. And always be on guard, observe when her sister could attack her and make her even more invisible and agreeable with her sister. So Ana created this identity that prevents her from being seen, that help her to hide. To help her to not feel hurt by being excluded and alone.

How did Ana live her life from that point on with this identity, with this believe?

She hides a lot. In every competition that she attend (math, science, painting, scouts..) she always came near the first place and then always something happens so that she did not win. She never has more than one friend. Later at her job she always hides and was relatively unknown even though she has huge responsibilities and very important job.

How to release this protection and childhood trauma within

There is a simple process to release protection that you created as a child, to release this identity.

If you want to learn the process and dive deep into discovering what protection did you create, I could offer you safe space and energetic support and insights for you and guidance thru process.
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With my support, you will help this stuck child inside you and you to get free.
And then fill the empty space where this little one was, with you.

Hi, I'm Jollanda.
I help people heal the emotional wounds from the past and change their inner blueprint of the relationship So they can finally get the love they deserve.

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