The biggest surprise (and a relief​ ) for me was, when I discovered  that loving myself ​has nothing to do with trying to love myself more.

​Has everything to do with just being who I am.  ​Being in love with myself​ just ​happened because I start to ​stop hiding me and start discovering ​who I actually am.

​​When ​I ​first time heard about loving myself more (of course with the hidden motive to get a boyfriend - if I love myself then others will naturally love me more.)